Actually, it's explained quite simply: your dual soul is afraid. Fear of unconditional love. Fear that he can no longer control his emotions. Fear of closeness and commitment. With both of you, he is at the mercy of his feelings. Your dual soul acts exactly the opposite: he runs away, practices distance, is cold.
And then why does he keep coming to me?
Because he feels exactly what you feel too! His soul wants to be with you. His ego, his mind tells him something different. What you experience when your dual soul withdraws is fear of loss. Almost all people with hearts have suffered painful losses or injuries in their childhood. Through parental separation, through a narcissistic parent, through abuse.
Use the retreat correctly
Use the time of withdrawal for yourself and your progress in the dual soul process. You need this time, what you can do:
- Active and conscious letting go
- Go into meditation
- Practice self-love and self-care
- Set healthy boundaries
- Learning to be alone
- have patience